Make a note in your diary now.

There’s no doubt that Valentines Day is a commercialised celebration of love.  So, should we ignore it; refuse to get caught up in the messages we are bombarded with to buy a card, book a restaurant and purchase a gift for the special someone in our life?

What if you were to think of Valentines Day and the reminders around every corner as helpful rather than a commercial ruse to extract money from your wallet?  When we get a toothache it reminds us to head to the dentist, a change of season reminds us of work required in the garden and Valentines day like it or loath it reminds us to be grateful for having someone special in our life.  Now I would certainly hope that you show your partner in life how much you care more often than once a year.  But, Valentines Day is the one day each year that you share with lovers across the world.

  On the 14^th of February couples everywhere are acknowledging their connection, it’s a celebration so why not join the party and feel the love!

Now I’m not suggesting that every couple should go mad and shower each other with gifts just because it’s Valentines Day.  I’m suggesting you do something appropriate to acknowledge the day and your love.  What’s appropriate?  This is different for every couple, but if you keep the following in mind you’re sure to get it right and have a great day.

On Valentines Day and indeed every other time you are purchasing a gift the key is to remember it’s not about you.  You may think flowers are a waste of money because they die a week later – tough!  If your special someone loves flowers order that bouquet today, and don’t say a word about the cost!  Conversely if your special someone is someone that thinks flowers should be left in the garden, don’t buy them a bunch just because you see them as a symbol of love, remember it’s not about you.  Simply ask yourself what does he/she like?  What makes them feel loved, spoilt and appreciated?  Perhaps a picnic, trying a new restaurant, a thoughtful card with a personalised note, breakfast in bed, a massage, or a romantic getaway… You know them best so take that information and make this Valentines Day one to remember. Oh and don’t leave it till the last minute.

With love and best wishes for a truly special Valentines Day.

Jody