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July 26th, 2012 by jody
You know that feeling when someone compliments a new outfit, hair do or just a job well done? It feels good, makes you sit up a bit straighter and walk with an extra spring in your step. Equally (if not more so) we love it when our special someone does something that makes others utter the words, “you are sooooo lucky your man/woman is so thoughtful/romantic/kind…. Go on admit it, when you hear those words you can’t help feeling a little smug – you’ve got a good one! When you want to make your special someone feel that way about you one of the easiest ways is to surprise them at work.
How? Easy…Send them flowers, have a picnic basket delivered, send them a bottle of wine with a note – for tonight (ladies if you are brave send lingerie to work with a for tonight note!), arrange a singing telegram, shout him/her and their colleagues afternoon tea. Once you’ve arranged the surprise sit back and wait for the delighted stories of, …….. was so jealous, I felt so special, everyone wants to know if you have a brother/sister.
Have fun and as always if you need a little extra help, I’m only ever an email or phone call away.
Wishing you love, romance and surprises!
Jody – Chief Cupid
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June 22nd, 2012 by jody
A big thank you to my darling husband for this tip.
Yesterday I received this text message: I feel a bit nervous about asking you but I have seen you around and I find you very attractive. I wondered if you would have lunch with me? Alan. Now of course I went back with something coy and said yes! He then arranged a time to pick me up, came and knocked at the front door with a bunch of flowers no less!
I don’t mind telling you I was grinning like the cat that got the cream. Our role play didn’t last too much longer than that because we both got the giggles but it was fun and a great start to our lunch date. So next time you want to take your special someone to lunch, dinner or a movie woo them a little and watch them light up with delight.
Wishing you love and romance
Jody – Chief Cupid
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May 31st, 2012 by jody
How do you order when going out for dinner? How do you introduce your special someone to new people? When your special someone comes up in conversation with others how do you refer to him/her? These are all situations where you have the opportunity to compliment the one you love.
Here are some examples:
Waitress: May I take your order?
Reply: I’ll have …. and my beautiful/handsome, wife/husband/boyfriend/girlfriend/partner will have…..
You: Hi ”Fred” I’d like to introduce you to the man/woman that makes me smile each day…
Work Colleague: How’s ………..
You: He/She is fantastic – you know, meeting him/her was the best thing that ever happened to me
This WILL seem very corny at first, but after a while it will come naturally. Both you and your special someone will love the special glow giving and receiving compliments in this way gives.
A lovely lady I spoke with last week put this very well. She said to me that she and her husband decided that there were enough people in life keen to point out your flaws and mistakes, and not enough to compliment and praise. With this in mind they each make a conscious effort in their relationship to compliment and praise, rather than criticize and complain. Judging by her big smile when speaking to me of her relationship I think it’s working!
Wishing you love, romance and compliments! in abundance
Jody – Chief Cupid
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May 24th, 2012 by jody
This game makes date night fun and at times challenging!
How it works: Take turns to plan your dates, working through the Alphabet as you go. If you start with A your special someone would then arrange B the following week/fortnight/month, however often you date. I suggest you buy a journal at the beginning and record each date you go on so that when you reach Z you have a record of all the fun and inventive things you’ve done.
I’m not going to suggest something for every letter of the Alphabet – that’s up to you and your imagination! So get thinking and get dating 
Wishing you Love and Romance in abundance
Jody
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May 17th, 2012 by jody
What is that you love about your special someone? The way they make you smile. The way they smell. Their sense of humour. Their cooking. The way they are with your children. Take some time and write a list, once you get started you are sure to find plenty of reasons (at least I hope so!).
When your list is complete give some thought as to how you will share all that love with your special someone. You could: Write them out on post it notes and place them around the house. Write them onto postcards and put one in the letter box each day for x days. Send one each day via text message or email. Get creative with pencils or paints on canvas to put up on the wall. Write them up on the bathroom mirror. Record your I love you’s onto a CD and put in their car.
Most importantly, as always, have fun and don’t just read this – do it!
Wishing you love and romance in abundance!
Jody – Chief Cupid
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May 2nd, 2012 by jody
A couples bedroom is a special place, a place where you can escape together and connect - show it a little love.
With a little effort, you can transform your bedroom into a romantic hideout - perfect for a Romantic Getaway in your own home. Put some bubbly into an ice bucket, get out your XOX Champagne Flutes and Candles. Call into your local florist and ask them for red roses (you want the petals) - If they have older stock they will sell you those at a discount for the purpose.
Place your bubbly and flutes on the bed and sprinkle your rose petals over the Duvet Cover. Draw the curtains and place your candles around the room (making sure to keep them clear of soft furnishings). For a little extra soft lighting turn on your bedside lamps and drape with delicate red fabric. Add extra touches like soft music, delicious chocolates a little massage oil, nice fresh sheets and make sure the room is warm.
Once you are ready blindfold your special someone and lead them into your lair…
Wishing you Love and Romance
Jody – Chief Cupid
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April 27th, 2012 by jody
7/ Q: Why are engagement rings traditionally worn on the fourth finger of the left hand?
A: Engagement rings are often worn on the fourth finger of the left hand because the ancient Greeks maintained that that finger contains the vena amoris, or the “vein of love,” that runs straight to the heart.
6/ Q: Who holds the record for the most marriages?
A: An Indiana Woman – Linda Lou Taylor (Maiden Name) holds the Guiness World Record at 23 marriages! How exhausting! Love the one you are with I say.
5/ Q: How many times does does the average person fall in love before marriage?
A: According to scientists – 7 times.
4/ Q: Who wrote “Love doesn’t make the world go round, love is what makes the ride worthwhile”?
A: Elizabeth Browning - One of the most prominent poets of the Victorian area.
3/ Q: In what three languages does the word TeAmo mean Love?
A: Latin, Italian and Spanish
2/ Q: Who is the God of Love in Roman mythology?
A: Cupid – Venus is the Goddess
1/ Q: How did the X come to represent a kiss?
A: Those unable to sign a document with their name due to illiteracy did do with an X then kissed the document in front of two or more witnesses to show their sincerity.
Come back next week for another slice of Romance Trivia…
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April 27th, 2012 by jody
There are many things in life that we place a value on, and because we value them we accept the time, effort or expense required to hold on to them. I value my business so I commit time, effort and money into making it a success. I value my sanity so I make time to rest and replenish, often with a good book. In our home we value keeping warm in winter, so we pay the power bill. We value our family home so we pay the mortgage. The list goes on as I have no doubt yours does.
The common theme to valuing what’s important is that it takes one, some or all of the following - Commitment, time, effort and money. When it comes to love and romance I believe you always need the first three and occasionaly the fourth. It’s all about commiting to make the effort and spend the time to love the one you’re with.
So what could you commit to today?
Sending a text message of love once a day
Writing a love letter and putting it in the post
Taking care of dinner when it’s least expected
Emailing the picture attached to this blog with some words of encouragement
Putting aside a few dollars each week to save for a shared romantic experience
Taking a walk hand in hand through the forest
Turning off the T.V and taking the phone off the hook so you can talk without interuptions
Give it some thought and then, the most important thing. Take action; because thoughts without actions are just excuses.
Wishing you Love and Romance
Jody
Chief Cupid
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April 12th, 2012 by jody
We all know love is about compromise. In most cases the aim is for both parties to compromise a little, each giving and gaining so that everyone is happy. However when it comes to romancing the one you love, putting your own likes/needs aside and planning something that has nothing to do with choices you would make, is this weeks tip.
Your special someone may love basketball, where as you would prefer to watch paint dry! Present him or her with tickets for you both to attend; your sacrifice will be as much of a delight as the tickets themselves.
Perhaps your special someone would love to attend a wine or beer festival while you hate the stuff! Suggest a romantic getaway to attend a festival. Explain that while you don’t enjoy wine/beer you do enjoy seeing the one you love having a great time.
Have fun and remember, romancing the one you love starts with putting their likes/desires before your own…
Love and Romance
Jody
Chief Cupid
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April 2nd, 2012 by jody
Today on our Facebook page I asked the question, is honesty always the best policy in a relationship? As I suspected viewpoints differed. Some feel that being honest always and without exception is the only way to go. Others admit to keeping things from their partner from time to time (for women the amount spent on clothing seems a common “fib”)
I personally believe there are two categories of lying – one about something you have done, the other about something you feel. I don’t lie to my husband about things I have done, firstly because honesty is so vital, secondly because it’s too hard walking around with “stuff” on your conscience! The only exception is if I need to hide things I’ve done due to a surprise, and I think we can all agree, that isn’t lying it’s being sneaky with great intentions.
I do however lie to my husband about things I feel from time to time. For example: I got home last night (Sunday) after a fabulous long weekend away with a group of girlfriends. I was exhausted (as you can imagine) and looking forward to a couple of quiet days recovery. As we headed home, said hubby told me he had taken my last Romance Tip about taking control when organising something special to heart and that I was in for a surprise tomorrow night. My heart sank!! Another night out after four days away, I could not think of anything worse. I had a choice to make – tell him how I felt and ask to re-schedule, or smile and say “yay”! For me the choice was easy, I lied and said “yay”.
It’s times like this one that I believe a lie is acceptable, he had planned a surprise to make me happy, and to say oh no, would have undermined all his efforts. As it turns out after a great night sleep last night I am now looking forward to tonight’s surprise, so my lie has actually become my truth.
Wishing you love and romance
Jody
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