Free Resources

Here are some apps that you can download to your smart device and use in your relationship.  Click on each icon for information on how to download.

Why Gottman?

Science! The Gottman Institute is the culmination of Drs. John and Julie Gottman’s life work as researchers and clinical psychologists. Their approach to relationship health has been developed from over 40 years of research with more than 3,000 couples—the most extensive study ever done on marital stability.

See for yourself why millions of couples worldwide have benefited from The Gottman Institute’s research-based approach to relationships. Inspired by the popular card decks from The Art and Science of Love weekend workshop for couples, this fun app offers helpful questions, statements, and ideas for improving your relationship.  Download to explore 14 card decks with more than 1,000 flashcards, tap the star to favorite a card, easily tab back and forth between All and Favorites, shake your phone to see a random card, and access more free resources from The Gottman Institute.

Improve your relationships one language at a time

You love each other, right? So why does it feel like you’re not on the same page? The most common issue in any relationship is the communication barrier. Everyone experiences love differently, and it’s easy to miss the mark when it comes to showing that you care. With a little help from The 5 Love Languages®, you can learn to identify the root of your conflicts, give and receive love in more meaningful ways, and grow closer than ever. Your Love Language profile will explain your primary love language, what it means, and how you can use it to connect to others.

Ready to love better? Take the quiz and discover your love language today.

Once you have identified your Love Language and that of your partners, use the flash cards below to find real examples of how you can speak their language of Love.

You may find that you both have a primary and a secondary Love Language too.

Special thanks goes to Tamara Nalder who has given us permission to use her cards.  

Marital Bliss - Cards for Couples

Competition has never been this romantic. Challenge your spouse to be the best you both can be with this charming card game that rewards sweet behavior. While most games begin and end within a span of a few hours, this one lasts for a full week, sending you both on secret missions to carry groceries, cook dinner, and more to earn points. The winner can select a reward from a plethora of pampering pluses including breakfast in bed and a shopping spree, a perfect gift for weddings, birthdays, and golden anniversaries. Made in the USA.  Download this free basic print-and-play version of the game.

24 DIY Love Coupons for Him

These DIY Love Coupons for him are a great gift idea for any significant other and for any occasion – because we all know that buying gifts for a spouse or boyfriend can be one of the hardest tasks out there!  With 24 different love coupon options, you can customize the perfect set of love coupons that your spouse or boyfriend is sure to love! We’ve included a variety of love coupons for either of you to enjoy. A love book coupon is a quick and easy gift idea that is always a hit. We have love coupons for him, for her, for anyone you love! You could use these as Valentine’s Day coupons, or they would also make a great anniversary gift. We have a whole slew of coupon book ideas for making your own couples coupon book. So let’s see how easy it is to create your very own DIY Love coupons gift!  ~ A free download courtesy of The Dating Divas.

The Art of Couples’ Conversation

These cards are designed to promote respectful listening and communication, celebrating differences, appreciating similarities and connecting in a multitude of new ways,  In an interview with ABC host, David Dowsett, Louise answers the question in Part One "What are the warning signs to look out for that suggests there may be a communication problem going on?"

In Part Two, she answers the question, "What would be the do's and don'ts when it comes to conversations?"

Take the Quiz

Physical violence is easy to recognise; this check is aimed at recognising emotional and psychological abuse. Not all abusive relationships are intimate partner relationships – you might be worried about your relationship with your partner, but most of these questions can be applied to other relationships – for example with parents, other family members, or even friends. Try to answer every single question. However, if a question isn't relevant to your relationship, you can skip it. 


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